Comment je me suis disputé... (ma vie sexuelle) (1996) - film review
Arnaud Desplechin
Drama / Comedy / Romance

Summary
Paul Dedalus realises that his life is a mess. He is approaching 30 and he is stuck
in a part-time university teaching job that he hates whilst writing a PhD thesis he cannot
finish. He is in a long-standing relationship with a woman he does not like.
Then he falls in love with the girlfriend of his best friend. What is he going to
do?
Review
This engaging romantic drama takes a wry look at mid-life crisis and features an exceptional
cast. The film is perhaps over-long and could have benefited from some judicious pruning,
but its distinctive style and convincing characterisation makes it one of director Arnaud
Desplechin’s most thoughtful and appealing films to date.
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Credits
- Director: Arnaud Desplechin
- Script: Emmanuel Bourdieu, Arnaud Desplechin
- Photo: Eric Gautier
- Music: Krishna Levy
- Cast: Mathieu Amalric (Paul Dedalus), Emmanuelle Devos (Esther), Emmanuel Salinger (Nathan), Marianne Denicourt (Sylvia), Thibault de Montalembert (Bob), Chiara Mastroianni (Patricia), Denis Podalydès (Jean-Jacques), Jeanne Balibar (Valérie), Fabrice Desplechin (Ivan), Hélène Lapiower (Le Mérou), Michel Vuillermoz (Frédéric Rabier), Roland Amstutz (Chernov), Marion Cotillard
- Country: France
- Language: French
- Runtime: 178 min
- Aka: My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument
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